Growing in Wisdom

Think of other women in your life. Are there any of them you would recognise as wise?  If it isn’t a word you use readily, try the following:

• which of them would you turn to for support?
• who has offered you good advice in the past?

At this stage of life, each of us could play the role of either woman…

Then you could start thinking about what they have - or had - in common. 

This was my list:

1. They are good listeners
2. They ask good questions to clarify things – to help get to the core of the problem
3. They understand that listening and clarifying may be enough – they don’t need to give advice or tell people what to do
4. If they are asked for advice, it is worth listening to – sometimes exactly what is needed, sometimes presenting a new way to look at things
5. They use their own experience, but don’t assume everyone else shares it – or should do things their way
6. They know their limitations and work within them
7. They see what really needs to be done - and what can wait a while
8. They have the ability to be restful, and to share it with others – they aren’t always rushing round
9. They can look after themselves as well as other people – if they didn’t, they’d still be no use.

You may have other ideas?

Women like this are good to have around, and joining their ranks is one good thing to aim for in the second half of life.  It has the advantage of not being tied to any one role or social group. You don't have to be someone's mother, or teacher, or manager.  Women like this are valuable in any context!

 

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